My lavender plants are dying, I feel slighted, pained, a failure and
confused. Isn't this lavender weather? Saving or reviving a plant’s life does not
equate to saving or reviving a person’s life, of course, but the I think the
instinct is similar. It’s paternal or maternal. It’s not the same but there are elements in common. It’s
nurturing, it’s protective, it’s a mutual relationship and if a plant suffers
or dies you suffer a little.
These
nurturing, parental thoughts came to me yesterday. The pink Hydrangea that
appeared last summer has finally flowered this year. Its magnificent pink petals
were one of the highlights of last year. All the more so as I didn’t even think
I think I liked Hydrangeas, in fact I would have struggled to identify one but
it had re-appeared as a result of the clearing work I did in that part of the
garden the previous summer. Clearing space allowed it to revive itself in a
magnificent display. Metaphors about clearing space literally manifest in a
garden at times, allowing us to enjoy the beauty of nature, its power, its
ability to have a renaissance. The
gardening metaphors are already there of course. We all know them; “Planting
new seeds”, "reaping what you sow", "blossoming career". The French philosopher Voltaire said we need to “cultivate our
garden” if we are to make something of our lives. Well that's how I understood it. Perhaps he was being ironic or facetious? The world was far more savage in 1758 than it is now, though eeerily similar in some
ways, so he must have been partly serious surely? Read the book,
Candide, you'll know what I mean. I always liked that metaphor, it’s beautiful yet
simplistic, it’s economical yet powerful, intimate yet vast. Get to the point, please. It took me to thirty-five
to really become an actual gardener and I’m still learning. I’m not sure if
Voltaire was interested in gardening, but literally cultivating your garden is
one way of getting there.
A garden is
an emotional relationship…you take responsibility. It’s holistic and reciprocal.
It’s different for different people and as I said, I realise that gardening isn’t
saving lives or curing diseases, but collectively if more people get
involved it can only be good for the common good. I believe if more people in
society took up gardening, discovered the joy and journey that is gardening,
the world would be a slightly better place. I'm not a pessismistic satirist like
Voltaire. I'm not a genius either but I'm a pragmatist and maybe an
idealist. Collective responsibility. That’s not so common
these days as we all have it a bit too easy, numbed by multi-media,
sensationalism and additives. Just look at the politicians
we've voted for or allowed to be voted in due to our collective
irresponsability or indifference. I'm just saying. Gardening should be on the programme for every
primary school on earth.
Anyway,
back to this garden, the other news is the bramble bush. Brambles or
blackberries, same thing. I’m not sure we could sell them at the local farmers’
market - not that you’d ever see me at a farmers’ market, I worry the smugness
may be contagious – bit tiddly, but great to have fruit literally growing wild
in the garden. Another metaphor! Should provide a brief feast for the Woodhouse
and maybe a Blackcap if one stops by. Haven’t seen one this summer, sadly. Nice
bird. Size of a large Robin, with a light body and a blackcap funnily enough.
Oh and the
frog came into the house late last night, I opened the doors stepped out for a
second, came back and it had hopped in, had to cajole it back out again. Love
frogs, but not in the house, though I’ve probably had less agreeable flat-mates
in the past.
As always ... a great read Lewis. :) I love your descriptions and I am inspired to take your points to heart and clear some space in my appallingly messy house!!! LOL. Cultivate my inner garden. :) I agree that gardening should be on the programme for every primary school on earth . . totally agree. And, bytheway, I think gardening has indeed saved many lives and cured many illnesses. Just sayin'.
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